Easy.
This being said, the world next to you, pretties in perfect make-up, a big wardrobe and possibly a book job, does exist and has entry points all based on personal connections.
There are underground parties, called house parties or community center parties that do play hard dance music and have intense indi-bands playing music to rock you.
Survival of the fittest applies to everyone and you will have to dress down on the aggressive sexy part, go for the dancing and moving part, take no Taxi ride but the bus to go there and have 5ers and 10ers and some 20ies in the wallet leaving the plastic at home.
Community Center Venues are a great place to get in touch and it's obviously not the Bingo Evening.
Google Maps is better to find them and if they don't run a website, you have to walk by and check their hangouts...
The world does not evolve around you! And there is a Hell's Kitchen everywhere in Sydney, Belfast, London, Amsterdam, L.A., Calgery...
#Underdogs #dontfuckwithus
Somewhere next to also your TussyInc SWAT hotspot