For Sex, it doesn't matter

if a woman likes you, he sais. Look Dude. You are in America. The desperate once look different over here. Have fun at those bars before closing hour, asshole. 

#igotstuck 

And to put that straight, real niceness is a good Stewart, Cashier or Hotel Concierge that likes his job and to have his clients smile. There is no English word for Anbiedern. It got shot in the Wild Wild West with the words "Nice try."