So, there is someone that says about Arni, "or there is someone that just doesn't care and wants to be the first who earns a million. Right. He is a wealthy man, but" . "that's his passion."
So, he caught himself at the "but" word and dropped a prepared answer. Using that word tends to relative and deprivate the importance of the point made in the statement before.
(Your face when your girl comes: "I love you, but..." the very moment you catch the "but"? ... Now we are on one page)
That comes by having reasoned a lot about that topic thoroughly. That helps to put you not into sorrow. It means you do not want to start a fight, not hurt anyone and avoid a shit show having something better to do than having your criticism being misunderstood thereby missing the point.
That someone, possibly on his couch, in silence or with music, some nice light, having a Thinker moment reasoned about that topic and in his head made a list of Not To Says and Say It Like That, based on the environment and situation.
In the military a Officer has to deal with what is coming in a fair manner when having given permission to Speak Freely as much as the Soldier needs to take his moment having been denied that request.
I love the Army. There is even a time for loosing it, if you just manage to stand there tight.
